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I read somewhere that if we keep doing the same thing, then we will keep getting the same results. If we think the same things, then we will keep creating the same outcomes. If we keep saying the same things, then we will keep getting the same response. Change! And the results are different. It seems so simple. Maybe it is. Perhaps we go into the process of change saying or thinking that it is going to be difficult. But if we realize that change is necessary, and it is in our own interest, then the process becomes more acceptable. What we say we will eventually believe. I believe that change is necessary for my spiritual growth.

I joyously embrace the concept of CHANGE.

LOVERS MITT

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This is a theory of mine that I believe to lead to a genuine, authentic relationship. Brutal honesty is the cornerstone for each of these four fundamentals, for a desired relationship. They must be in this order…. #1 is the physical attraction, this is the first thing you notice when meeting someone. I’m not saying they must be attracted to the world; this someone must be attractive to YOU. 😉   There must be something that catches your eye about the person even if it’s just a cute smile. #2 is chemistry, this and the next component is vital to your relationship.  Remember, Brutal honesty is key. Being able to be yourself, and with any conversation. Never dull, awkward or boring. There must always be a spark of exuberant energy and life.  Me time equals our time. #3 is the emotional compatibility, this component is also vital to one’s relationship because women are emotional beings. Being able to stimulate your lady emotionally will bring euphoric bliss on its own, to make a women feel secure, assured, wholesome and fulfilled. Last is intimacy, physical intimacy, this is sex. I feel like this should be the last component, because being attracted to someone from the inside out and all components together as one creates the highest form of energy (LOVE).😉 Picture this: life is like a puzzle. Putting a puzzle together, you start off by sorting the pieces all out in front of you according to the shape, size, color or ends.  (This is your preference) Then you commence to put this picture together of a desired relationship. (According to The box) When putting these pieces together you come across a piece and it looks like it should fit, sometimes we even want it to, but it doesn’t. Often times we force this piece into a spot where it doesn’t belong. When meeting someone if the attraction is there, it feels right so we naturally try to force this piece together. When doing this sometimes we go for so long we get comfortable or content and we tend to lose sight of what we really like and love. When you start to force pieces into places where they don’t belong, by the time you get to the end result it’s a picture that will never make sense or be right. When we put so much effort time and energy, we don’t want to break it all back down and start over, so we just deal with it. And when dealing with something that is forced, we tend to lose sight of the big picture. (THE BOX). Forgetting or losing yourself will cause destruction to what we are chasing, a pure love. You cannot deviate from brutal honesty in these four fundamentals in any form or fashion. If you do even a little you will have built a relationship on a lie. It is my dream to restore a pure and genuine love with these four fundamentals in one’s life…..

Don’t Forget To Smile!!! 😁

                                                                                                                  By:J&M

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